I start by saying that we often lie to ourselves and especially to those around us that we are present or more correctly told that we are connected to everything that’s going on.
Whenever you are with your family or partner and they need your real presence, you tell them that you are listening to them, but in fact all the while you take the phone in your hand and connect with anything else.
Let’s first establish what it means for me to connect.
Connecting is that energy channeled on a single point.
For example, I remember when my mother was very dissatisfied with the fact that all the time when he came to my room to talk, I was with the phone in my hand. At that moment I did not understand what it upset and insisted on telling him that while I was sitting with the phone in hand, I can listen to it.
Now I understood the mother’s madness and I realized she was right in everything she was saying.
At that moment I made her feel like the phone was my priory and not the conversation between us.
Lack of connection with others can cause deep wounds.
In couples it happens very often that two people believe they have the perfect relationship but in reality they forget to connect with each other.
To avoid tensions in the couple, choose to give each other time each other while you’re only connected to it, without a phone, without anything else.
You will see that relationships will improve considerably and you will not waste your energy in the wrong or less important directions.
While reading this article, are you here now, here?